Christine Chin-Sim, Ph.D. | About Me
How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a MindSet Mastery Life Success Coach?
To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment that brought me to where I am today – coaching people like you on exactly what to do to master your mindset – so that you can reach your highest potential in every area of your life. That defining moment in my life happened in April, 4th, 2002 – the day just before my birthday. It was the day my husband chose to file divorce papers on me. And as he stood watching his friend serve the papers to me, I somehow managed to hold back the tumultuous avalanche of tears I felt welling up inside me. It was something I didn’t see coming. He had started picking fights which ended up in horrible quarrels about two months before, but I thought we were just going through a rough spot and everything would work itself out eventually; but it didn’t.
So suddenly, at the age of forty-two, I found myself going through a divorce after being a stay at home mom for a bit over twenty (20) years. I got married at twenty-one and was out of the workforce, with no degree and very little work experience. I felt alone and lost. I was never interested in finances and depended on my husband to handle everything financial; so imagine my dilemma when I now found myself having to take care of things I had no idea about. I had just started a job at a local furniture store, and on a slow day when the day seemed to drag on and on, I sat and tried to muddle through the overwhelm of what I needed to do next. I decided I had to go back to school to obtain an undergraduate degree so I could be independent and support myself financially. After I finished I applied for an open position at the University where I studied. However I was not called in for an interview, so I decided to ask the President of the University why I didn’t even get the opportunity to interview for the position even when I had the qualifications required. Was it that their degree meant I would not be qualified for a position at their own university? He was a bit taken back and mumbled something which I couldn’t understand, I thanked him for his time and left. The following week, I was called in and offered the job. This was the one of the many confirmations I had, that if you want something in life, you have to ask for it. There can only be two answers, yes or no. I had never adopted the mindset that it would be difficult for me to re-enter the workforce after twenty years. Somewhere deep inside, I just knew I needed to do the work necessary to qualify me for the job, and everything else would take care of itself. Fast-forward ten years later and I’ve completed an undergrad, masters and doctoral degree. How did I do it? I had to learn how to master my mind-set and I can show you how to do the same.
Now I help my clients break away from the prison of other people’s opinions, to be self-assured and confident in who they are so they don’t feel the need to always compare themselves to others. I teach them how to create boundaries so that they are not at the mercy of people taking advantage of them, I help my clients learn how to love themselves so they do not feel the need to seek love and affirmation from others. I show them they are enough and have all they need to achieve any goal they set their minds to and that all that is needed is for them to reach down deep inside and bring it forth the strength they always had.
I watched their confidence soar and their heart open to new possibilities. I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other women, just like myself – soar to higher heights as they learn the tools they need to achieve Mind-Set Mastery. These women between the ages of 30 – 60 years have experienced many life transitions; marriage, parenting, divorce, children leaving home, caring for elderly parents and their children, while at the same time maintaining a career, change in careers, and retirement. Now with my help, they are able to navigate these life transitions with the knowledge that they can handle whatever life throws at them because they now have the tools to make them stronger and more resilient, along with the knowledge that they have the power to choose the life they want to live.
I’ve also worked with many private clients, conducted many workshops and spoken in front of countless groups: I am living my dream of working from my home and setting my own schedule, and I have created Mindset Mastery for Women over 30 which takes you through a series of eight (8) changes in your mindset that will allow you to move out from a place of stagnation and mediocrity to living a life that is vibrant, fulfilling, and filled with purpose. Some of what you will learn are: how to recreate your self-image, how to eliminate worry, how to create boundaries, how to say “No” and still keep the peace , how our thoughts affect our future, how the words we speak daily can affect our happiness, and how to interrupt negative thought patterns. Just think how your life will change when you are able to manage all those areas of your life
Who are your clients?
I work with women just like you who are between the ages of 30 – 60 years:
- business women who are overwhelmed by the responsibilities of being a mother, fulltime employee or entrepreneur, caregiver for elderly parents, spouse, and homemaker
- stay at home moms who’ve lost their sense of self and purpose and feels invisible and unrecognized for the work they do everyday
- divorced, separated and widowed women who feel blindsided and abandoned, alone, afraid and immobilized as to what the next steps in their life should be, and married women who seemingly have everything but feel alone, isolated and unappreciated.
What makes you different from other MindSet Mastery Life Success Coaches?
I work on the inner and outer principles for success in every area of your life. These principles I teach will help you manage your mindset so you can better handle any challenge that comes your way. What you’re getting is a Coach who has gone through and expereinced most of the crap you are now going through, and have come out the other side like a freaking PHOENIX rising out of the ashes of the fires meant to kill her. I also believe in a Higher Power – which for me is God – and so you’re going to hear about Him in many of our conversations, so if you’re uncomfortable with that, I’d not be a good fit for you. I ’m also not going to sugar-coat stuff so you feel comfortable, simply because growth is going to require that you embrace all the things that make you uncomfortable, and me handling your issues with “kid’s glove” is only going to perpetuate the mindset you’ve been using to handle the problems you face. What I do promise though, is that I will be right there to walk beside you and point you in the right direction every step of the way.
My main concern is how to get your mindset aligned with the goals you have for your life in order to reach your highest potential. You may not like what I have to tell you – but you can be absolutely sure I will always tell you the truth about what’s standing in the way of your success and how to get rid of it FAST so you can start getting results in record time. Your friends and family who you turned to for advice felt they had to be kind and support you – but that hasn’t worked, has it? So my purpose here is to guide you to the path less travelled where you face your fears, your perceived inadequacies, and rise out of your comfort zone to break the boundaries that have hinder your growth for so long. You are a Phoenix! A Badass Woman Rising! And my job here is to help you emerge from the ashes of self-doubt, fear, trauma, self-hate, low-self-esteem, physical and emotional abuse, feelings of unworthiness, isolation, loneliness – into a place where you stand above your circumstances and decide – yes, decide – how you choose to handle any other challenge you will ever face in your life! You have that POWER! I will show you how to unleash your POWER to decide, once and for all – HOW you live your life. The DECISION is yours, the CHOICE is yours! – Nobody else has that power but you!
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
The “Mindset Mastery for Women Over 30” Signature System, workshops, products and programs were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead serious about removing the roadblocks in their minds so they can live their best life. It means not running around all day long, beating yourself up anymore saying: “Why me God?” “What the heck is wrong with me? “Why do bad thing always happen to me?” “Did I kill somebody and wasn’t aware of it and now you’re punishing me?” Why do I attract all these losers, these challenging situations? Why can’t I find someone to love me the way I want to be loved? “”Why can’t I be happy?” Is something wrong with me?” My program was created for you to put systems in place within a few months (sometimes weeks!), which will eventually lead you to mastering your mindset and living your best life!
Being a woman over 30 (way over 🙂 who has been divorced, lied to, cheated on, whose kids have left home, who was a stay-at home mom for 20 years, who started a bachelors degree at forty-two (42) and continued on to achieving a doctoral degree, all within ten (10) years after my divorce; I can tell you from experience and show you that nothing is impossible when you change your mindset to believe that you can do anything you set YOUR MIND to. Because of my vast life experiences and now my extensive academic achievements, I am perfectly positioned to assist women just like you, who’ve had similar life experiences as I’ve had. Women in their 30’s and above that have been divorced, and now struggle to take care of themselves as they start over, women who are stay-at home moms and have lost their identity and sense of purpose; who no longer know who they are – you’re someone’s wife and mother – but without them – who the heck are you?, women who are overwhelmed by the multiple roles and responsibilities they bear daily, women who are committed to their success no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to feel happy and fulfilled again. My clients often tell me – “Just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ can do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to feel happy and fulfilled. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal of Mastering Your Mindset So You Can move out of a place of stagnation and mediocrity to achieve your highest potential and live your best life.
For what type of women are your programs NOT going to work?
Please know I’m very selective in who I choose to work with as my clients. Not everyone is suited for my programs as they would not get the results they would have signed up for. And it just wouldn’t be fair to them. The “Mindset Mastery for Women Over 30 “ Signature program is NOT for those who have no money coming in and are absolutely, financially desperate – at least not right away. It’s been my experience that people in financial crisis do not trust the recommendations I give them and do not do the work necessary to achieve their goal. If you’re worrying about where you’re are going to get next month’s rent check or mortgage payment, then it’s unlikely you’re mentally prepared to take on the work required to get the most out of this program. If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK. We’ve all been in times of financial crisis at one point or another. Do yourself (2) favors:
- When you get some money coming in with a full-time or part-time job at the very least, then call me. This will take the edge off and provide a little more peace of mind. Mostly, it will de-clutter your mind enough to focus on the Mastering your Mindset assignments and the BIG picture.
- Make a point to join my group and read the posts on my website. I try to send tips every day and will give you LOTS to think about in the meantime.
Doing these two things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, call me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you need me.)
A type of personality I won’t work with (without exception) are the whiners or the chronic skeptics, as well as individuals who consistently make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not call and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?
What exactly is Mindset Mastery for Women over 30 Signature System and what does it include?
Mindset Mastery begins with understanding your true value, where your power really comes from, how to change the way you see, feel, understand, and interpret the challenges you face in your life. You will learn how your mind works and how to control it – rather than having it control you. Here’s what you will learn to master:
- Who do you want to become?
We get CRYSTAL clear about what you want to experience in your life, what that life looks like when you’ve achieved this goal, who will be in your life, what will you be doing, how you will be feeling, etc; In short, you’re going to CREATE your perfect life and this is the blueprint we will use to get to the life you want by mastering your mindset .
- Release Your Inner Resistance
Mostly you might already know what you need to be doing but yet are still struggling in procrastination, feeling stuck ad spinning in circles. You’ll be learning proven techniques for breaking through your inner resistance, self doubt, fear, anxiety and all of that “stuff” that keep you playing small so that you can begin taking the steps you need to live your best life
- Examine what you’ve been doing and creating new mindsets to allow you to break past these barriers
Together we’ll find out exactly what you’ve been doing to sabotage yourself and work on breaking those barriers and change limiting beliefs. Who you surround yourself with that might be holding you back, we’ll really drill down to what kinds of personality traits, thoughts patterns, fears, and habits so you can face these monsters and move past them.
- Getting back to you
We’ll spend considerable time focusing on self-care, self- love, self-confidence
- Demolish Fear and Worry
You will learn how to use your mindset to stop fear and worry in it’s tracks and move forward when fear and worry rears its ugly head.
- The magic of forgiveness and gratefulness to get past hurts and dissapointments
You will learn to develop a daily practice of forgiveness and gratefulness and focus on what you want – instead of what you don’t want manifested in your life
- Re-shaping the self-Image
We’re going to look at what you’ve come to believe about yourself that is not serving you and retrain your mind to become the person you want to be
8. Examine the power of your thoughts, words, and behaviors and how they create your destiny
We will look at how your thoughts and words have shaped your destiny so far and how to change that.
Does this really work?
Yes! The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset and belief systems so you are in control of your circumstances instead of allowing circumstances to control you. See testimonials here: https://leverage4change.com/testimonials/
What results can I expect?
You can expect to:
- Feel empowered and excited about your future
- Learn how to create healthy boundaries
- Find your happiness again
- Improved health benefits due to less stress and worry
- Watch your best life unfold with ease
- Raise your self-esteem, self-confidence and self-worth
- Learn how to connect with your intuition
- Being in control versus being controlled by your feelings and emotion
- Learn how to say NO and honor your yes and no’s
- Re-discover yourself & set goals and reach them
- Create new standards and goals for yourself
- Re-write your story and get back to your “happy place”
Can I contact some of your former clients to see what it’s like to work with you?
Yes, I encourage you to! Please go to the Client Testimonials https://leverage4change.com/testimonials/ page and read all of them. See which ones you feel drawn to, either because the person has gotten the results you want to get, or perhaps because that person is in a similar situation. Then feel free to email or call them and ask what they got from working with me and my programs.
How quickly can I expect results?
That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and master their mindset in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first. It also depends on the amount of time and effort you are willing to put into each assignment. Nobody can force you to do anything you do not want to do. It’s up to you to want it badly enough to do what is required.
How can I guarantee myself that I will improve my mindset and start living the life I want, in record time?
Do all of your homework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of Mindset Mastery Signature program is successfully on their way to living their best life than they could ever hope to on their own. This is because this is a guided program that’s been proven to work for others when they follow it.
Christine, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know you’re the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?
Congratulations on making a decision for personal happiness and success! I’m happy to work with you to achieve your personal growth goals by mastering your mindset. The best way to work with me is in my 8-week Mindset Mastery for Women over 30 Signature Program. Here are some of the results you can expect:
- A happier more fulfilling life
- Better and mutually fulfilling relationships
- Increased self-confidence and self –esteem
- And so much more …
OK, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of additional questions. Can I call you?
Good, sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, if you have a couple of questions, just email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or call us directly at 954-483-0669 and I’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you. I can’t wait to see you succeed and am honored to be the one to help you. Let’s get this party started!
Schedule a FREE 30- minute breakthrough call here: https://schedulecallwithchristinehere.as.me/
Let’s toast to your journey to happiness, expansion and freedom!!!
Christine Chin-Sim, Ph.D. (Mindset Mastery Life Success Coach)