Our Controlling Desire | Dr. Christine Chin-Sim | “We will become as small as our controlling desire; or as great as our dominant aspirations!” James Allen What is your controlling desire? Perhaps I should ask, “Do you have one?” And if you do – is it one where you strive to be the best version

Has to be a MUST, not a SHOULD | Dr. Christine Chin-Sim Completing anything in life has to be a MUST. Whatever you determine is a MUST – you WILL find time for, otherwise you will find an excuse! Taking some examples from everyday life. If you get a call from a friend and a

Mind is the Master power that moulds and makes, And Man is Mind, and evermore he takes The tool of Thought, and, shaping what he wills, Brings forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills: — He thinks in secret, and it comes to pass: Environment is but his looking-glass.

So you “SAY” you want to make some kind of a change – you want to lose weight, you want to get a better job – you want to finish your dissertation – you want to find Mr. or Mrs. Right? So what are you doing about it??? What’s that you say? “You know, someday…”

We believe that the thoughts we have and the conversations we engage in within ourselves are secret, but these thoughts and conversations become manifest in the circumstances of our lives. Our thoughts create our reality. If we consistently think negative thoughts – then guess what – that is what will become our reality. I remember

So many of us live in the past. We constantly bemoan the things that “happened to us” and blame them for why we are the way we are today. Let me say this clearly. I’m in no way minimizing some of the atrocities that many of us experience; what I must say however, is that

The only person you are destined to be, is the person you decide to be. So many of us sit back and assume that life is going to “happen” to us. We use the excuse that God – or whomever one believes in – is going to reach out with a magic wand and zap

So many people procrastinate. As a “do it now” type of person, I really cannot understand it! I believe procrastination steals so much more than time; it steals joy, happiness, success, health, and so much more. You might be asking the question, “How does procrastination steal joy?” Well, just imagine that when someone procrastinates –

Maybe it’s because I’m getting older. And you know it would seem logical that as we get older we SHOULD have a bit more wisdom than when we were teenagers seeking to find our way in this world. However, this is not always true. I’m sure most of us have seen people who manipulate their

James Allen observed, “What we think, we create; what we feel, we attract; what we imagine, we become.” Is it any wonder then why so many of us are caught up in a cycle of hopelessness, helplessness, and frustration? If each day we are on this earth and all we do is think , “Another