If you truly want to know who a person is; don’t ask them; just listen to them and observe what they do. A person can tell you anything you want to hear. And some will agree with anything you say; however, if you listen to a them long enough and watch their actions, you will come to know who that person really is.

So – since you cannot change others, and can only change yourself, let me ask you a question.

If someone were to listen to you and observe your actions, who would they say you are? Are you someone with integrity? Do you say what you mean and do what you say? Can they trust you to follow through with what you promised? Or do you just make and break promises without a second thought?

In the same way that you are able to listen and observe to understand who a person truly is; others are also able to do the same.

Be careful what you say and do; others are watching; and it could be those you care about the most. Have some integrity!

Feel the FEAR, and DO it anyway!